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Question about Success Coaching?      Coaching

Q.   What is success coaching?

We have an entire page devoted to answering that question. Click here to find out why and how having a personal coach can be of great value to you.

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Q.   There are several good coaches around.   
Why should I come to you?

Not only are there some good coaches around, there are some excellent, high-profile, very successful coaches around.   Check these two websites and you'll see what I mean:   http://www.philiphumbert.com   and   http://www.optimalthinking.com/index.htm.

If you are asking, "Is what I'll get from others any better or worse than what I can get from Joy 101 Coaching?"  the answer depends upon your perspective on life and upon what you are looking for.   To say someone is better or worse than someone else is often a highly subjective, personal  judgment.   As coaches, each of us simply offers guidance for our own unique perspective.   

Here's our suggestion:  Examine our web page titled, How Joy 101 Success Coaching is Different from Other Coaching Services.   Check out several different coaching services, and then choose the one that feels right to you.

We feel we are among the best.   We are sufficiently confident in the quality of our services, that if you are dissatisfied with Joy 101 Success Coaching, the money you've given to us will be returned to you.

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Q.   I can change my life on my own.   I've even got you book to guide me.   What do I need you for?

Can you make changes on your own?   Of course you can!   So can almost everyone else who is not mentally of physically handicapped.  The question is not, can you...?  It's "Will you..."  It's not about ability.  It's about commitment, persistence, and integrity with your self.   And then it's about recommitment, recommitment, and recommitment -- as many times as it takes and for as long as it takes.

If you can re-invent yourself without my assistance, please do so.   Unfortunately,  it's extremely difficult for most people to make significant changes in their lives on their own while living in their old environment and associating with the people who helped them focus on creating what they no longer want.   

At minimum, I recommend first, that you find a partner to study with and for mutual support, second, that you find new friends who are in harmony with your new goals, and third, that you stop viewing and listening to stories about experiences you don't want to have in your life.  

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Q.   What is your perspective on coaching?

Joy 101 Coaching treats root causes and not symptoms.   Most (if not all) human problems stem from three primary root causes:  

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Q.   Sex and relationships are big issues.   
Do you deal with those issues?

Most definitely!   Because humans are by nature, social creatures, relationships are a major area where coaching can make a significant difference in your life.   All Robin's coaching clients receive a free copy of his latest book on relationships called "The Yoni Dance."   Click here for a description of that book.   

The The Yoni Dance book also deals with an issue that, in most circles, is a taboo topic for discussion -- and that topic is the relationship between sex and spiritual consciousness.

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Q.   I'm sick of people telling me I'm wrong. Will you try to fix me?

Definitely not!  There is nothing wrong with you, and there's nothing about you that needs fixing -- but, it's not that you are perfect either.   Joy 101 Coaching is not about fixing anything.   It's about learning the laws of intentional creation and focusing on who you choose to be.   It's about tapping into your undeveloped potential.  

If someone has a problem with who you are or what you do, (as long as you are not harming someone else)  that's their problem.   Leave it to them.

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Q.   What will your coaching sessions do for me?

If you think I or any other coach is going to do anything for you, you're in for a big disappointment.   Success coaching is, in many ways, similar to any other type of coaching.   For example, a basketball coach doesn't play the game for you, he (or she) shares his/her mastery with you.   A success coach guides you, offers suggestions, and keeps you on track, etc., but you still have to play the game yourself.    Click here to find out why and how having a personal coach can be of great value to you.

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Does having a Personal Success Coach interest you?

Are you ready to reach more of your potential?   

If the answer is YES, then:

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Question about religion and faith?

Q.   Will your coaching sessions weaken my religious faith?

Absolutely not!   Regardless of what religion you presently practice, if you are secure in your belief that there is a divine creator, that we are each a vital part of that creation and that we live beyond the demise of our physical bodies, your faith will be strengthened by allowing your mind to participate in your religious faith.

When head and heart are combined, religious faith becomes a co-venture of love, trust, truth, and wisdom.   That's an unshakable combination.

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Q.   Do you believe in God?                Do you believe in God

Before we can answer that question, we need to define what you mean when you say "God."     Are you talking about a fickle, angry, jealous, vindictive, wrathful, vengeful, super-human being sitting on a cloud somewhere?   Are you talking about a god who  (for reasons that completely escape human understanding and with what seems like arbitrary unpredictability)  heaps great good fortune onto some, horrendous misery onto others, and pretty much ignores everyone else?

Are you talking about a god with an ego so great that  he demands our worship and a self-image so  small that he demands our obedience -- a god so weak that he needs our help to punish the unfaithful -- a god so weird that he murdered his own son as an expression of love -- a god so angry and unforgiving that he's still punishing people today because a long dead ancestor ate fruit from a forbidden tree -- a god so small he can fit inside of just one religion?   If that's your definition of God, then the answer is no.    I don't believe anything which fits the above description could possibly be God.  I'd sooner believe that the tooth fairy and the Easter bunny were living in my attic.

When you ask, "Do you believe in God?"  if you are talking about the source of creation that transcends our understanding --  if you are talking about the sum total of all that is --  the source of everything we are and everything we experience  -- if you are talking about a god that offers a set of invisible laws --  laws that are as immutable as the law of gravity, laws that we each can intentionally use to create our own personal experiences (or ignore at our own peril)   -- a "God" that we are each an eternal part of -- a "God" that is love, joy, and beauty manifesting itself in what we call the physical world?   If that's your definition of God, then the answer is "DEFINITELY YES,  I DO BELIEVE IN GOD!"

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Q.   I've heard so many ridiculous statements from religious fanatics that I've  simply turned my back on all religions.   I want to believe in God, but I can't accept the vast majority of what I've heard as anything but garbage wrapped in silk.   Is there any way you can help me?

Of course!   Because the media thrives on sensationalism, much of the information we have received about religion has been focused on a relatively small, but very vocal group of ultra-conservative individuals who have an extremely limited view of reality.  Because the common and the ordinary don't attract much attention, the media presentations have very often given us distorted pictures of religion -- pictures that do not represent the majority of religious people.

By using shocking, scandalous, and melodramatic stories and by making  outlandish claims, this vocal minority has successfully attracted the bulk of the public's attention and left us with highly inaccurate perceptions of what religion is all about.   For example, to murder abortion doctors, to burn down women's health care facilities, to fly airplanes into buildings, or to commit other crimes in the name of God makes many people angry at all religions.  

Our job is to help you look beyond this distorted  view -- to see the more complete picture -- to see additional possibilities.   Actually, it doesn't take much looking to find the overwhelming circumstantial evidence and the considerable amount of physical evidence that humans are much more than simply physical bodies that have somehow acquired consciousness.

Joy 101 Coaching will clarify the difference between religion which is a group, social phenomenon and spirituality which is an individual, internal, personal experience.   Joy 101 Coaching will also restore your confidence in yourself and enhance your ability to make sense of the world around you.

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Q.   I've heard so many conflicting religious stories.   How can they all be right?

Look at this question from the perspective that every one of us has a vision of the truth, but none of us has the complete truth.  We  get into trouble when we claim our piece of the truth is the complete and only truth.

We become like the three blind men in the Sufi story about examining an elephant.  One blind man, while touching the the elephant's side, declared that an elephant was like a wall.  The second touching its leg, declared an elephant was like a tree, and the third blind man, while holding on to it's tail declared an elephant was like a snake.

All three were correct, and, at the same time, all three had very distorted perspectives of an elephant.  Please note that the significance here is not in what each blind man  said about the elephant.  The significance is in what they didn't say.  If you continued this elephant analogy, you could probably come up with several dozen more equally limiting ways to describe an elephant.  When you substitute God for elephants in this analogy, the possibilities become infinite.

This leads us to an obvious conclusion:  God is just too big to fit inside of only one religion.   Readers are invited to the page titled Spiritual Awareness on our Wedding Website.  The Exact address is:
http://www.tlc-services.com/r03-spiritual-awareness.html

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Q.   Because I speak rather bluntly about the insanity that  humans have the audacity to call "civilization," I'm occasionally asked:

On whose authority do you speak,

and for whom do you speak?

I speak on the authority of the Truth which bows to no authority but itself.   I speak for the millions who have no voice.   I speak for the 40,000 children who die each and every day for lack of food and basic medical care.  I speak for the generations as yet unborn.  I speak for the birds, the fishes, trees, the plants, the animals.  I speak for Sacred Mother Earth, herself.  That's for whom I speak.

This may not apply to you, but to those to whom it does apply I ask: 

On what authority do you deny, ignore, and distort the Truth?   On whose authority do you rape and defile the Sacred Mother Earth that feeds and houses you?   On whose authority do you steal from generations still unborn.  On whose authority do you leave your grandchildren's grandchildren with millions of tons of deadly, toxic, radioactive waste -- waste that (if not eliminated by means yet to be devised) will still be toxic 50,000 years from now?

Does having a Personal Success Coach interest you?

Are you ready to reach more of your potential?   

If the answer is YES, then:

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