If you are like most people, you  grew up in what is called a family.   Terms like  mom, dad, children, siblings, parents, etc.  refer to members of the family.   Where did this family unit come from?  Your parents created it.   On their wedding day, they formally declared its existence, and later created children as a portion of the content within their self-declared context.   Before your parents  declared it into being, what you refer to as "my family" did not exist.

Your family unit is an example of a personally created context.   In this example the context was created by two people together.  Your parents created that context, and you, your sibling, your mom, and your dad are all content within that context.  This is just one example.  Every relationship you have is a co-created context.   

Your life is filled with contexts.   Your relationship to your physical body is a personal context.   Your relationship to your home is a context.  Everything you do is within several contexts.  Most of these contexts were originally created when you were a very young child.   Remember, a personal context is a mind set, a mental attitude, a way of being.   Here are some more examples of contexts.

The main and most common ones are listed below.

contexts that are not changeable  ...  

Within a context, things are not done for reason or as a result of content.   One neither sits back and waits nor does he rush out and do.   One continues to live his/her life and does so in the space of positive, joyous expectancy.   One does, or allows to occur, whatever feels appropriate, whenever it feels appropriate and all the while, continues to hold the context in mind as though it were already a physical reality.

Making a commitment to something is creating a context.   Creating a context sets the forces of the universe into action.  The following is probably the most famous quote regarding commitment:

The forces of creation are derived from the context within which things are done and have nothing to do with the doing.   Goals manifest in accordance with that belief system, the mental mindset, the context in which they are held.   A belief system is a filter through which all thoughts must pass on their way to being manifested.

A context must be continually recreated.   It can be likened to creating balance while riding a bicycle.   Contexts have contents but contents do not create contexts.   First a context is created and then all of its contents fit inside.   Being precedes action because being is the context and action is the content.   A context is a way of being.   It is not something to do.

When something becomes a context, it has room for its opposite within it as content.   Within a context there’s even room for it's impossible.   A context allows space for all positions and beliefs.   A context allows space for all contents.   There is no need to resist any contrary ideas.   There is no need to defend anything.   There is no need to hold any ideas as positions. (i.e. “This is why such and such is happening.”   “This is how to solve the problem.”   “This is what to do about that.” Etc.)   Whatever is done within a context is done by choice and is not done for reason in response to content.

Avoid being stopped by what is logical and reasonable.   Intentions often get overwhelmed by the intellect and by reasonableness.   For example, if Einstein had been reasonable, he would have never come up with theory of relativity.   Become aware that when we get our limited personalities and egos out of the way, we make room for the intuitive and inspirational aspect of self to work through us.

Become aware that what is a context (a ground of being) in one area of life is often also a context, and a controlling factor in other areas of life.   For example, if you believe that suffering here on Earth is the only way to get to heaven, that belief, that context, affects not only your religious behavior, it also affects everything else you do in every other area of your life.

People lose sight of their contexts when they stop: 

     (1)   to deal with things that give the illusions of being negative or
              counter to the context, 

      (2)   to deal with things that are totally irrelevant to the contexts,
               and 

      (3)   to praise those things that appear to support the context.   

With our limited amount of knowledge we often have no way of knowing whether outside events are positive, negative or neutral.   Avoid being at the effect of those self-created, seemingly outside-created events.   Observe them and keep on going to the goal.

When a barrier comes up, just be with it.   Avoid resisting it, trying to dominate it, trying to control it or trying to change it.   Instead, include it in and make it part of the context you have created.   Rather than challenging it, make space for it, simply allow it to be as it is.   Shift your focus on your intended outcome.   This focus directs your creative energy toward your goal rather than wasting it on that which is not wanted.

Be in charge, but do not attempt to dominate or control.   Press on to completion by staying in the ground of being that knows: "I am the cause."   And remember, there is no room for victims at the “Inn of Success.”

1)   Acknowledge and accept the contexts in which you find yourself. For example, you live in a masculine of feminine body that is whatever age you are.  (See the list above.)   These contexts are not changeable; however, within these grand contexts you can create your own personal reality (e.g. create your own personal context)

2)    Declare your intention to be, do, have, express or experience
         anything you choose.   (By your declaration you create
         a context.)  Avoid trying.  Either do or don't do.

2)   Hold your goal in your mind as if it already exists.   (By holding
        the goal in mind you are continually re-creating the context).  

3)   Take whatever steps are necessary to make it a physical reality.   The intricacies and details of this process are covered in considerable detail in the section titled, How to Eat an Elephant ^©